{"id":1667,"date":"2012-09-13T20:42:26","date_gmt":"2012-09-13T19:42:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.berrebi.org\/?p=1667"},"modified":"2012-09-13T20:42:26","modified_gmt":"2012-09-13T19:42:26","slug":"why-im-leaving-facebook-tomorrow","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.berrebi.org\/index.php\/2012\/09\/13\/why-im-leaving-facebook-tomorrow\/","title":{"rendered":"Why I&#8217;m leaving Facebook tomorrow&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>(French Version below &#8211; Version fran\u00e7aise ci dessous)<\/p>\n<p>Original posted on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/jberrebi\/posts\/375262112547644\">Facebook today<\/a>&#8230;but will be deleted with my account tomorrow<\/p>\n<p>Hello everyone<\/p>\n<p>Before I leave completely Facebook tomorrow, I need to explain why I took this decision.<\/p>\n<p>I joined Facebook on April 2007 at the early beginning of their enormous growth outside schools and universities.<\/p>\n<p>I was always impressed by this company\u2019s capacity for innovation, and the fact that they know how to keep things simple to use and understand!<\/p>\n<p>They built a simple platform that can be used by anyone including my 87 years grandmother. It seems that she just reached the Level 22 at Diamond Dash \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>At the early beginning, I used Facebook a lot to find and read new information about the high tech industry. It was useful and productive\u2026 but more and more, Facebook became a mass market product and instead of news, my news feed now includes people posting photos of their wife\/girlfriend, children, dogs, parties\u2026,people (including me) giving their political opinion and criticizing things that they don&#8217;t understand nor know well.<\/p>\n<p>All this exhibitionism doesn&#8217;t fit the way I want to live at all. For me, a private life needs to stay private. We don&#8217;t have to talk to any other people about what&#8217;s happening at home. I don&#8217;t understand why husbands are putting their wives\u2019 pictures on their profile or watching their wives posting their pictures and sharing them to everyone. Why are you doing that ? What are you waiting for ? So many couples have been destroyed by Facebook in the last years\u2026 So many around me too&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Furthermore, I think that Facebook is really counterproductive. I can&#8217;t find any interesting information related to my business that I can&#8217;t find beforehand on Twitter, Techmeme or some other place.<\/p>\n<p>Facebook is like a drug for me\u2026it takes too much of my time\u2026checking who liked what I said, who commented, answering, commenting again\u2026 I needed to understand how Facebook works. It&#8217;s important for my job but I don&#8217;t think I have to stay on the site to understand Facebook. (I will perhaps keep a test account in the future to test applications from our current and future startups)<\/p>\n<p>We have so many things to do in our real offline life,<br \/>\n&#8211; so many time to spend with our wife, children, parents, friends\u2026I really think I&#8217;m stealing my relatives\u2019 time when I&#8217;m here.<br \/>\n&#8211; so many books to read, things to understand, startups to manage\u2026 I just think that Facebook is not the good place for that.<\/p>\n<p>I really think that I can do a lot more by being a little more disconnected. That&#8217;s why I&#8217;m also not taking my iPhone at home anymore\u2026and keeping at at my office for testing purposes. (or when I\u2019m leaving my office for an entire day\/week)<\/p>\n<p>Last but not least, I&#8217;m a Jewish &#8220;ultra orthodox&#8221; (as they say) living in an ultra orthodox city\u2026 I haven&#8217;t watched TV or a movie since 2004. Pictures posted on Facebook cannot be compatible with my Jewish life.<\/p>\n<p>This decision was really difficult to take\u2026but I love taking hard decisions\u2026 \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>Thanks to all my 4726 Facebook Friends!<\/p>\n<p>Remember, you can follow me on Twitter :\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/jberrebi\" rel=\"nofollow nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-bitly-type=\"bitly_hover_card\">http:\/\/twitter.com\/jberrebi<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Version fran\u00e7aise &#8212;<\/p>\n<p>Bonjour \u00e0 tous !<\/p>\n<p>Demain je quitte d\u00e9finitivement Facebook !<br \/>\nMais auparavant, je voulais prendre le temps d&#8217;expliquer pourquoi j&#8217;ai pris cette d\u00e9cision.<\/p>\n<p>J&#8217;ai rejoint Facebook en Avril 2007, au tout d\u00e9but de cette croissance \u00e9norme qui a suivi l&#8217;ouverture du service au-del\u00e0 des \u00e9coles et des universit\u00e9s.<br \/>\nJ&#8217;ai toujours \u00e9t\u00e9 impressionn\u00e9 par leur sens de l&#8217;innovation et leur capacit\u00e9 \u00e0 conserver un service toujours simple \u00e0 utiliser et \u00e0 comprendre.<\/p>\n<p>Ils ont construit une plateforme simple pouvant \u00eatre utilis\u00e9e par n&#8217;importe qui, y compris ma grand-m\u00e8re de 87 ans.<br \/>\nIl semblerait m\u00eame qu&#8217;elle vienne d&#8217;atteindre le niveau 22 \u00e0 Diamond Dash \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>Au tout d\u00e9but, j&#8217;ai beaucoup utilis\u00e9 Facebook. Essentiellement pour y lire des informations sur l&#8217;industrie high-tech et ses acteurs. C&#8217;\u00e9tait non seulement utile, mais productif.<br \/>\nPuis, de plus en plus, Facebook est devenu populaire et bruyant. A la place des news d&#8217;autrefois, les nouvelles que je lis aujourd&#8217;hui incluent d\u00e9sormais celles de personnes qui affichent des photos de leur femme\/compagne, de leurs enfants, de leurs chiens, de leurs soir\u00e9es&#8230;, des photos d&#8217;autres personnes .<br \/>\nIls y expriment (dont moi parfois) leurs opinions politiques ou critiquent des choses qu&#8217;ils ne comprennent ou ne connaissent pas toujours bien.<\/p>\n<p>Tout cet exhibitionnisme ne correspond pas du tout \u00e0 la fa\u00e7on dont je veux vivre&#8230;<br \/>\nPour moi, la vie priv\u00e9e doit rester priv\u00e9e, sans r\u00e9v\u00e9ler ce qui se passe \u00e0 la maison. Je ne comprends pas pourquoi des maris exposent des photos de leur femme sur leur profil ou regardent leur femme afficher leur photo et les partager avec n&#8217;importe qui.<br \/>\nQuel est le sens de tout cela ? Qu&#8217;en attendez-vous ? De nombreux couples ont \u00e9t\u00e9 d\u00e9truits par Facebook ces derni\u00e8res ann\u00e9es &#8230; Beaucoup, y compris autour de moi &#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Par ailleurs, pour moi Facebook est devenu vraiment contre-productif. Je n&#8217;y trouve plus toutes les informations int\u00e9ressantes li\u00e9es \u00e0 mon domaine d&#8217;activit\u00e9, informations que je peux par ailleurs trouver sur Twitter, Techmeme etc.<\/p>\n<p>Facebook est devenu une sorte drogue pour moi. Cela prend trop de mon temps : v\u00e9rifier qui a &#8220;lik\u00e9&#8221; ce que j&#8217;ai publi\u00e9, qui a comment\u00e9, qui a r\u00e9pondu, qui a \u00e0 nouveau comment\u00e9 etc&#8230;<br \/>\nJ&#8217;avais besoin de comprendre comment fonctionne Facebook. C&#8217;est important pour mon job, mais je ne pense plus devoir y rester pour comprendre &#8211; \u00e9ventuellement, je garderai un compte test pour les applications de nos startups actuelles et futures.<\/p>\n<p>J&#8217;ai tant de choses \u00e0 faire dans ma vie r\u00e9elle, hors ligne,<br \/>\n&#8211; Passer le plus de temps possible avec mon \u00e9pouse, mes enfants, mes parents, mes amis &#8230; J&#8217;ai vraiment l&#8217;impression de leur voler du temps quand je suis sur Facebook !<br \/>\n&#8211; Il y a tant de livres \u00e0 lire, de choses \u00e0 comprendre, de startups \u00e0 g\u00e9rer &#8230; Facebook n&#8217;est tout simplement pas un endroit compatible avec toutes ces activit\u00e9s.<\/p>\n<p>Je suis persuad\u00e9 que j&#8217;ai beaucoup plus, et mieux \u00e0 faire en \u00e9tant moins connect\u00e9 ou un peu plus souvent d\u00e9connect\u00e9.<br \/>\nC&#8217;est aussi pour cette raison que je ne prends plus mon iPhone quand je rentre \u00e0 la maison&#8230; je le laisse au bureau.<br \/>\nSi je l&#8217;emporte, c&#8217;est quand je quitte mon bureau pour une journ\u00e9e ou plus.<\/p>\n<p>Enfin, et ce n&#8217;est pas la moindre des raisons, je suis un juif &#8220;ultra-orthodoxe&#8221; (comme ils disent) qui vit dans une ville ultra-orthodoxe &#8230; Je n&#8217;ai pas regard\u00e9 la t\u00e9l\u00e9vision ou un film depuis 2004.<br \/>\nLes photos post\u00e9es sur Facebook ne sont pas compatibles avec la vie juive que j&#8217;ai choisie.<\/p>\n<p>Cette d\u00e9cision a \u00e9t\u00e9 tr\u00e8s difficile \u00e0 prendre &#8230; mais j&#8217;adore prendre des d\u00e9cisions difficiles &#8230; \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>Merci \u00e0 mes 4 726 amis sur Facebook !<br \/>\nEt souvenez-vous, vous pouvez toujours me suivre sur Twitter :\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Ftwitter.com%2Fjberrebi&amp;h=kAQG79d0JAQFEt268TrsqeF1Srxw-gfNAJ0f6Oi8ocz48sw&amp;s=1\" rel=\"nofollow nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-bitly-type=\"bitly_hover_card\">http:\/\/twitter.com\/jberrebi<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(French Version below &#8211; Version fran\u00e7aise ci dessous) Original posted on Facebook today&#8230;but will be deleted with my account tomorrow Hello everyone Before I leave&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.berrebi.org\/index.php\/2012\/09\/13\/why-im-leaving-facebook-tomorrow\/\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Why I&#8217;m leaving Facebook tomorrow&#8230;<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1667","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.berrebi.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1667","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.berrebi.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.berrebi.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.berrebi.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.berrebi.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1667"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.berrebi.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1667\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.berrebi.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1667"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.berrebi.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1667"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.berrebi.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1667"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}